Ask a GG - Part Two

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Anyway that brings us to today and our current arrangement is based on being honest about how we feel and me only doing it when shes not around. She says she is now absolutely fine about it and we do talk often but she has never expressed any interest in seeing me dressed which makes me wonder if she still finds the idea of it too difficult.

I don't want to suggest it because I am fine if she doesn't want see but I'm surprised she is not in the least bit curious. I would be interested in your perspective on this as a GG

Hi I think you are doing the exact right thing let her decide when and if she sees you dressed. Although in my case I met Sherlyn dressed and it's our life together - my pov is coming from hearing other GGs here and our local group that found out later in a relationship do not push it because when they are ready they will tell you. The way I understand it it's not that they are not curious but more that they have an image of you as their partner and do not want to lose that. If and when they sort that out in their mind and ready they will invite your girl side to meet her. Keep being patient and keep being open and honest that's everything in a relationship.