Sex related question / discussion

[Maria 60]

Wow I'm surprised this thread is still here, but in reality it is a strong and real part of crossdressing to recognize this side and being curious how everyone here reacts to these feelings even though everyone dresses for there own different reasons.
I'm a hedrosexual man and to be honest my wife brought it up to me one day when I got all dressed up and looking myself in the mirror, she asked me why does everything have to be so perfect am I going somewhere.
She said when I dress she believes that I believe I'm a women and she wonders what would happen if I did get out and get attention from a man what I would do.
My wife is very interested and infatuated with my dressing, her theory is its all hormonel for me, more about the feelings of the clothes, because everytime I dress it ends with orgasm, and believes I love being a man.
But on the other hand my wife brought up a Halloween a few years back when we all dressed up and we went house hopping, of course I was dressed as a prostitute. When we were at my brother in laws friends house, his friend told me what great legs I had and he put his hands on my ankle and ran his hand up my leg and lifted my dress all the way up exsposing everything and felt my leg up and down and even between my thighs. I was frozen I just stood there, but I remember getting so aroused. My wife seen this and told me she seen by the look on my face that I was enjoying it and I didn't try to pull my skirt down or pull away or do anything to stop him. I believe honestly is the best policy so when she asked me if I enjoyed it, I was straight and told her it did and I felt his hand for days later.
For myself I had no attraction to him, I didn't want to go to bed with him, I guess I just enjoyed the attention. My wife thinks that when I'm dressed I believe that I'm a real women and if opportunity came that I would like to be felt up but doesn't believe I would have sex with a man, in which I did confirm I have no intention of that and never thought of it.
BUT, and there's always a but, because she's not 100% sure of this, she has some things and she told me if I have any temptation or if I want to experiment on my own she told me which one I could use. I'm not going to lie, I do experiment with it and trying to keep an open relationship with my wife, as hard as it is I tell her about it.
I don't know if I went out of line here but I thought I would give some of my experience with this and at times we go through different emotions.
After reading everyone's response, we all dress for different reasons and we all have different destinations and goals we want to reach. It's hard for you to get a straight answer because we are all different. Thanks great thread.