Jodie: first of all, don’t worry too much about Deebra. She’s so hot and passable that she’s on another level than the rest of us (or something).

Second, I firmly believe in the principle that trans women ARE women. Therefore, since you are trans, you are a woman, and thus sex with a man for you would be straight sex. Judging by “parts” simply does not work. For example, what about a man who has maybe lost... things... in some sort of accident. Would that mean he has lesbian sexual with women? Or women who have been circumcised? They don’t have ALL of the female parts so are they genderless?