One thing I have realized in my relatively long time on this earth is that we are all different in some ways, and at the same time we are all very similar. Lots of our stories are similar inasmuch as how we have trodden our paths, but we all tread slightly different paths. That is just the human condition. In these differences are differences of sexuality, how we feel about fellow humans, and there are a whole lot of contributory factors. All I can speak about is my feeling that we are born with certain proclivities that seldom change. I have always felt somewhere in between the gender stereotypes of man and woman, and have been attracted to the male as well as to the female. I have had encounters with men while dressed and not dressed, women while dressed and not dressed, and a lot in between while dressed and not dressed. I have loved all of those encounters, and derived a great deal of satisfaction, both sexual and relational with all of them bar very few. Thank god for diversity and our ability to embrace it Let's try not to get wrapped up in pedantics, taboos and denial.