This could go in Tips to an SOs Acceptance as well as here, I guess.
I got careless tonight. And now I'm not in the closet any more, but I may well be in the doghouse.
I changed clothes after work and picked out my bra and panties for tomorrow. And proceeded to leave them out on the bathroom counter. My wife brought them down to me and asked, What's this? I said, It's mine. "Are you a crossdresser?" I weakly answered, "kind of, sort of." Shame on me for not owning and saying, Yes.
She replied, Well, that's better than an affair, and went back upstairs.
So, I know the talk and questions are coming. I've spent a lot of time thinking of what I would say, not expecting I would ever need to, though. I know she's going to feel betrayed by my dishonesty, and feel hurt, and I don't know what else?
I know I need to be just as open and honest as I can when the questions come, and I intend to be open and answer everything.
I guess I'm wondering what questions will she ask that I haven't thought of and anticipate?
I don't feel relieved yet, that she knows, but I hope that comes to me.
GG's, please pass along words of advice, if you have any.
