ReineD I disagree about hypothetical, it a good subject for CD's to discuss, some are wimps to their wives and others might have a little backbone. And I do agree with the rest you said. Here Goes, I do have a S.O., we get along fine. I have a drawer full of panties, another thongs, etc. and 10 pair of girl jeans. Because of my masculine build she doesn't think girl jeans look good on me and she also understands what's offered for male jeans is bad. If I wear girl jeans when we go out it's very hard to tell they are. If I want more feminine jeans and to dress more feminine I do this when she is at work and dress in a way to blend. I never wear anything to embarrass either of us. I listen and like to please her but she does not have the final say what I wear and same for her with me. Housekid said it well, if we don't like what the other will wear we don't go out with them, this hasn't occurred with us ??? yet ??? She has no problem with me dressing, it's something I was born with, she understands this. CDing can be a good thing too because I buy a fair amount of her clothes and help her pick out the rest, she is attractive, feminine and curvy. IOW two on the same page can make for an enjoyable shopping trip, so different than a macho male shopping with his wife that's "bored stiff/ aren't you threw yet/ let's go".
