On top of making a gross generalization, with this post, you’ve unwittingly (?) given away your location. Maybe you don’t care and that’s fine, but yeah.
It’s true some people dress because they enjoy some kind of humiliation, but I’m sure that if crossdressing were normalized, they could easily find another way to debase themselves. People who crossdress for that reason evidently see it as something reproachable and therefore are not adequate allies in the quest for the normalization of crossdressing.