Hello! First off, I would like to say thank you for being so excepting and willing to work with your hubby. I know many here are jealous.
Ok. So here is my two cents on the matter...
I don?t CD in front of my kid not out of shame but for the fact that I don?t know he would understand (7 year old).
I think you can have couple time on both in/out of femme mode. If you two plan to have a nice quote day at home... no kids, and watch a movie, nice meal, and be just people. Then go for it in femme. You can have couples time as usual but with the fact he looks like a she.
If you aren?t ?interested? in a sexual moment with him en femme, then let him know that. If your planning to have some.... extra curricular activities in your....room... then no dressing up.
I can?t speak for him but personally I never gave much thought to sex while dressed. He might not be interested but he might be as well. This would be a subject the two of you would have to talk about. I do suggest that you do talk about it and voice your concerns to him. I don?t know your particular tastes on the matter of being intimate with him while dressed or girls in general, but talking is the key here.
On a lighter note, you could totally mess with him and play the song ?I kissed a girl? right after you guys kiss while he is dressed up. Sorry, I always try to find something funny for any situation I?m in.
If you ever want to talk just shoot me a message and I?d be happy to help out