Lotta, I think you'll have to work this out yourselves. Because inter couple and family relationships r all very different, but challenging, without CDing thrown in! Whatever u 2 agree to that is FAIR and WORKS!? Is OK!
In my experience, I came out to a life long girl friend. We were college sweethearts but stayed in "contact" thru our marriages and divorces. After my divorce we were starting to see each other again. I told her about Sherry. As I had only recently began CDing. At first she a very supportive. But, she soon resented Sherry and we broke up after 40 years!
Moral: U need to express your concerns!
