Sandi,

Does this ring any bells??

Good grief I do not know what has gotten into me this week. I have been going out in public wearing my breast forms everywhere, except around my wife. It is a huge adrenaline rush but I am going to get busted for sure by my wife or someone close to me. I had been experimenting with new ways to attach my forms so I can go braless with a clingy shirt. I have such a great bounce with my setup that I just can not get enough of it, and I feel like I am about to have a train wreck over it. Somebody talk some sense into me. Ugh.

And this?

High Helen. I did not make it all that clear. I had been experimenting with the forms when my wife was out shopping. Once I got the results I liked, I started wearing them under my clothes in drab mode except a couple of times I wore women?s white shorts and pantyhose, but most of the time just men?s clothes. I was wearing a men?s shirt that is very light material so the shape was quite obvious. Our weather is mild in the daytime so it was just a shirt. I wore them into stores 6 days in a row. Pharmacy, grocery, and even a restaurant today. I thought I had my life in balance though somewhat fragile. I was doing this mostly when my wife was asleep in the morning. She does not sleep well and sets her alarm for 9:30 am. All it would have taken is someone to ring the phone and wake her up to see me walking in the house dressed like that. That is why I said - out of control. Talk about risky behavior. Sometimes I do not understand myself.


This is the post those came from.


To say this was inevitable is stating the blindingly obvious. Folks warned you nothing good was going to come of your actions but it seemed you took no heed and ended up in this awful state of affairs. Anyone who fails to listen and act on the advice of others here, others who may have fallen victim to the same bear traps has no-one to blame but themselves.

I suspect that one of the reasons your SO reacts so badly is, and I have to go on your description here, is you seem to dress that little bit sexy, small and tight, clingy. What your SO sees before her says that her man likes a different type of woman. A femme fatal, a sexy siren, a younger more alluring female.

How you deal with this situation is now firmly down to you. Get it wrong and you know the outcome. Ball's in your court.