Candace,
Please, PLEASE - tell me that this isn't your real drivers' license number!
That isn't something you should be sharing with the world at large.
And to Monica:
I'm sorry, but if it were me, I'd tell #1 that he has shown himself to be un-trustworthy and he's going to have to earn back the friendship that he's damaged so badly. Then see what happens...
About the son, I'm not sure, but I think a "you should know about this" letter to his superiors might be in order.
Since he's new to the force, now is the time to set him straight. He needs to know that this is not OK.
