Thinking back to the pre-covid days when we used to go out. Friday night was our regular night. One of the local clubs had a DRAG show and DJ following.
I always wore a dress, full makeup, etc. My wife would be in jeans and a casual top, little to no makeup.
I have taken the pressure off of her to always be the pretty one and she appreciates it. More than once she has said "If you want to wear all that girly stuff you go right ahead.".