Reine,
That aspect is often hard for a husband to deal with , I know my wife had hangups about parts of her figure , I would guess many women do but trying to put that right is so difficult . Men can be insensitive at times and not realise making someone feel great or special is all it takes . I would love to be a girlfriend to a woman but as you say a woman can get that suport from outside a close relationship . I've come to the conclusion that just having good friends is as close as I will probably get , meeting up with someone , enjoy a coffee and do some shopping , tell each other you look great when you try something on . I know I've said I can't wear something because .... then a friend or SA may assure you .
I recall shopping in a large out of town store , they were running a warehouse clearance sale and I became caught up in a group of women who had organised a coach trip . The comments that passed between the women was quite revealing and very amusing at times . I was joined by one of them , she kept telling me to buy things because they would look great on me . Eventually I asked , " What about you ? " she replied , " I'm enjoying shopping for you because at 4' 11 " none of this stuff is going to fit me , I accept my lot and look foward to having my coffee after and hearing the other girls talk about their outfits " . I couldn't help it I had to give her a hug !!
