Quote Originally Posted by CharlotteCD View Post
Wow, way to read into my character from one post and make judgements.

I'll speak for me personally, which is that I'm not trying to be a girlfriend. I'm not trying to be any kind of female companion to her. I am HER HUSBAND, and I am (and always will be) trying to be the best husband I can be.

We married because I provide her with what she wants in a HUSBAND. Whether she realises that I come with extra benefits is immaterial. I will never try to be something to her that I am not.

I'm sorry that you feel it is otherwise.
My answer was not refering to you specifically. I made no assumptions or judgements. It could have come from anyone. The answer from the GGs was "we have girlfriends, we don't need any more. And we don't marry/ have bfs because we are lacking girlfriends". There really is not a gap in a modern woman's life that can be filled by a partner who crossdresses or some help he could ever provide that would make it as ,in your words, an "extra benefit". A woman that wants to know how to do her hair will figure it out either on her own or with the help of a professional. If she wants to find a new style of clothes, there are people getting paid to give her options to try. Or a girlfriend who will give her an honest assessment, if she needs a second opinion. Reine said it well, we would ask our partner of his opinion only if we are interested in how we look to HIM.
I had no intention to offend you but if you took it personally, so be it.