Mine is more DADT NIMBY (not in my back yard). It is ok if others cross dress just not me! It is even ok if the sons boyfriend transitions to female, just not me! She loves Billy Porter but I am not allowed to like him(her). Just pisses me off sometimes. Dual standards. But I bite my tong and go on since I did not bring it up before we were married, she did not sign up for this. My burden, my fault.