I read posts like this and the responses way too many times and wonder why the heck tell a wife, before or after the "I do." The rarity of finding a partner who will embrace these little "quirks" are so few and far in between it makes concealing a viable alternative. It bad enough a woman will not embrace the totality of a husband, but to poison the well so others may not drink from it is going a little bit too far. I wonder what goes through a wife's mind as she searches and destroys her husband fem attire. What does she think she is accomplishing? Does it change who he is? Does it expunge that part of him from her mind? Sometimes I think when a woman does these things she is molding her "Prince Charming" into her view of the perfect husband. No rough edges for her.
