Vent...this is not how I thought things would go

[Di]

Counseling was mentioned but I have done enough research to realize that if I were to attend counseling it would be for the sole purpose of suppressing this side of me and I realize that this is unattainable. I'm not sure I want to. I am preaching to the choir when I say that no one besides those like us can ever understand the feeling of letting our feminine side free.


So my point is, Emi doesn't want to do those things because Emi can't be outside for the world to see.

Thanks all for listening and the kind words

Emi

What THE What? …. counselors would be to suppress that side?
Where do you get that from ..the opposite is true!
It would be to help you see it’s not that big a deal , common AND find a balance and can include your wife in that.


Seriously no one but you all can understand???
I beg to differ all he GGs that are here and have passed through here?..with their CDs and those than transitioned.
The CDs that want to remain in the closet ( their choice) the partners are in the closet as well.

I see it as you are coming to this part of your life without preparing or being honest with yourself or your wife…..I might not be too late.
The negative way you look at it ( IMO) you will need counseling first then your wife.

Good Luck