Oh my so much concern over a throwaway comment.
I shall try to give a little perspective.
The owner in question greeted me the previous day while I was in the supermarket. I thought this was quite nice and I made a point of saying thank you when I saw him the following day when I was ordering drinks.
The person who I was with is there very often and knows the owner so it was just him coming over to ask if our meals were ok.
In truth I cannot remember exactly what was said between him and Caz only her reaction to him saying something about me being transgender.
He does not care, he has seen me as a person and a valued customer.
When Caz said after he left that what he said was rude (outing me) I could care less. I don't believe it was done with any malice.
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Kim I was not affronted by the remark. I just don't care and yes Caz is over protective of me.Originally Posted by kimdl93
Same can be said by Jasmine23
Suzie. Thank you but I never felt uncomfortable. I have more than enough confidence to just shrug this off.
Ah Gale. You have the wrong end of the stick. My friend knows just about everything about me (probably more than she should after all that wine) and she accepts me totally.
Genifer. I think he is older than me and is still very "old school" so the language he used in his eyes might not be considered out of place.
Blue. The food is good and the place is very local to myself and Caz. One little thing like that is not enough to put me off.
Ordinary. Well yes I am but I am not sure where you are going with your comment. The point of my thread was to show that these things can happen and wondering how others feel about it.
Dutchess. I can see what you are saying and when I wrote this last night I was a little drunk. I probably in hindsight should have called it being outed. I am TS and proud of it.
This is not the first time I have not framed my threads correctly. I may never get it right but I will keep trying.
