I laugh at those that say we CD ers have the ability to dress as we please. Sure, if we wish to give up our entire world as we have built our lives. My kids and grandkids may or may not alter their interactions with me. Don?t know and can?t unring that bell. But while my wife considers herself a free thinking feminist, there is no place for deviation from societies norms as she see them. She can wear any men?s clothes but gives me crap about even pink men?s tee shirts! I want to pierce my ears, dye my hair a color and paint my toenails. NO Way! Men can do whatever they want? Sure at great risk to everything!!!

Bea, I love your determination to express yourself. Go for it!