Quote Originally Posted by Country girl GG View Post
I hope I don't upset anyone by asking this but, I read and reread in different threads how those of you who have an accepting SO/spouse/GF feel so fortunate to have someone who is accepting, yet at the same time I read how those of you who don't, would give anything to have one who did [accept]. So, tell me then, if you can, WHY are there CDer's out there who DO have a totally accepting SO yet it just isn't enough ? They shop for you and with you, want to go out with you while you are en femme, do all the things that you want to do as a Coder and still it just isn't enough? How hard can it be to realize how lucky you are to have a totally accepting SO ? Is it really asking to much to expect you to ask how our day is going? How about show an interest in what we like to wear, or are wearing with out it being from the standpoint of ohhh, I wish I had something like that? Are there other things in life to talk about besides every aspect of CDing? Is this the only part of life that matters? Do I sound a wee bit frustrated? Well I would really like some answers from the CDer's if anyone can help me. Thanks.
Country Girl gg
Some CD's think they possess feminine qualities, but lack what I call the three"C's." Caring, compassion and consideration. Yes, you are an equal part of the relationship and deserve not only normal conversation, but also the need to feel wanted.
Unfortunately on a forum dedicated to CDers the conversation is going to lean toward the trivial, superficial aspect of CDing.
Tell "Him" hey, want to feel super feminine, try taking care of the kids, while I spend a day at the spa. How about you clean and cook and I'll primp, then talk to all my girlfriends about what I wore today, or will wear in the future. Want to feel "Extra" feminine, try cleaning the toilet. Maybe it will put things in a different prospective for your CD SO.
Sorry, guys, but sometimes we forget how great we have it, and abuse the privilege.