I suppose it depends on your perspective. I've seen alot of print recently where the wife/SO is treating the cross dressing spouse as inferior and a perversion. What's the point in either case? To make one feel better at the expense of the other? I have said all along that in the vast majority of marital difficulties where cross dressing is involved, the root cause is not the cross dressing, it is something else.Originally Posted by Tree GG
Love, real long lasting love, is sacrificial. Country Girl GG is on the right track. When vows are made, they are NOT conditional... I will love you as long as you conform to my ideals and standards. Too many people go into a marriage expecting to get something out of it. That's the wrong expectation. Rather the idea should be that a marriage is entered into with the attitude that the one longs to complete the other and is willing to sacrifice them self to do so.
Honestly, we all do things our spouses/SO's would rather we did not do. So what? I cross dress. My wife will sequester herself away in the den and play computer games for hours on end. Would I ever demand that she give up gaming and if she didn't, leave her? Of course not. I would no sooner do that than she would demand me to give up dressing. We've been married over 39 years; known one another for over 40 years. We've raised a family together. We lost a five year old child together. We've laughed and cried together. How silly would it be to dissolve a relationship over panties and/or pixels! Wouldn't all relationships be better off if those involved spent more time worrying about what they were bringing into the relationship rather than what they were getting out of it?
