No matter what my husband wears, I know it is him..... to both him and myself it is clothing, end of discussion.
It is not often verbalized, but deep down inside I know he realizes how my acceptance makes our every day to day life easier. I put no limitations on his dressing - i know it is important to him. I know that under all of the girlie clothes, most of which I have purchased or sewn myself - is the man I fell in love with years ago.
Just a word of advise for those WITH accepting, supportive wives...... let them know how much they are appreciated and loved. Being told such things will only enhance the relationship. Too many things these days go unsaid.
:2c: mellisa's loving wife GG