Quote Originally Posted by Tree GG View Post
These are quotes from a CD.com post, an unassociated journal I read from a CD about his journey out of the closet/divorce & the third from another CD's writings. I think none indicate any remorse or regret or even concern for the wife or her feelings. IMO, they show a tendency to treat "the woman within" as the ultimate goddess and the real, breathing wife as an appendage to be removed as if it offends "her". At the very least, the wife appears to be just an incidental casualty.
Pretty bold words. Perhaps GG's could learn to relax a bit. Something tells me most GG's wouldn't take too kindly to their husbands telling them how to dress. Clothing choices does not have to end a marrage. If a marriage fails because of someones clothing choices, it really leaves no question as to where the blame falls. I'd have to say the real casualty is the man who stands to lose everything just for being expressive, not the oppressor.