I have decided to talk to him this weekend

[Corrine GG]

I brought up the dressing and he, (like he always does) turned it around back on me.

I asked him if it was sexual and he said "NO, you and your damned insecurities are really starting to piss me off."
I said, "I love you and I want you to be happy." He said, "I AM happy."

Then 2 seconds later tells me how much he loves me.

This morning I tried again. I told him that he didn't need to hide from me. "I'm NOT HIDING anything from you." I guess he still hasn't realized that I found his high heels in the car before he could go hide them where ever it is that he hides his 'stash'. I told him that I'm not going anywhere, that I love him. I guess years of protecting his secret are going to be hard to overcome.