That is correct, I don't know every gay man out there. And as far as opening my mind......puleeesssseee!!! You know nothing about me, so what gives you the right to pigeonhole me as closed minded? I am allowed to be open minded whether I understand someone else's fantasies or not. Not understanding does not mean intolerant. It simply means, it doesn't make sense...TO ME. I am quite certain, that there are many open minded crossdressers, gay/straight/bi/lesbian, for whom another person's fantasies don't make sense. If you can't understand where I am coming from....does that make you closed minded? Think about it.

As to writing fantasies on an open forum if the author gets a kick out of writing fantasies that is justification for anything? And, again I ask....what has this to do with crossdressing? That sounds like a man who gets off on writing sexually explicit works, and there are plenty of outlets online for that. Guess what??? There are even forums where they specialize in transgendered and crossdressing fantasy writing. If you are interested, I can direct you to several that I have actually been to and read. Read with an open mind no less.

Do you have a GG in your life whom you are hoping will accept your crossdressing? Do you have a wife, who if she saw this thread might wonder about your fidelity and sexual activity? Do you have a friend or relative who you might want to direct to this site, in order to help them understand why you dress irrespective of your sexuality? You seem to have overlooked the fact that several of us who have posted a distaste with this thread have done so for these very reasons.

Just because the forum is crossdressers.com, does not automatically make this place a sexually charged one. Again, being a crossdresser may have a sexual component for many. That doesn't make this sexual for all. By assuming it is primarily sexual, that then paints the stereotype that crossdressers are all doing this for a sexual thrill, which is incorrect.

Why not do this in the private forum??? Is the thrill more about the titillation of having others read one's sexual escapades? Or is it really about the author writing. If it's actually about the writing, then doing this in the private forum should be no problem. If it is about sexual exhibitionism.......then post away:rolleyes:

Dee