Quote Originally Posted by Wickanne GG View Post
...but nothing explains having time my g/f and not me :p
This is my point. Even though he thought he tried, he didn't understand your needs. In particular your need to have him with YOU and not your g/f. And the only person who will know why he had more time for your g/f than you would be him.

He tried, in his own way maybe, but he really didn't try hard enough. He may have done amazing things with you, but in the end, did he really understand that you had real issues with him spending so much time with your g/f? Did he really try to understand why you had issue with this? Did he really, whole heartedly try to make you happy in this regard?

I don't know the full circumstances of the issues, so please don't think I am blaming anyone. Everytime a relationship fails, both parties involved share the responsibility. I just don't think crossdressing was the issue, it only highlighted the issues already present in the relationship.

Be that as it may, I am really sorry the relationship didn't work out.
Understanding why someone does something can only be explained by the individual who did it. I hope you have better success in your future relationships.