Hi there Wickanne,
HCC's other half here :D I missed this & HC has just brought it to me.
All I can say is a paraphrase of what I say to HCC's eldest son. He has Asperger's Syndrome. Sometimes his behaviour is unacceptable, & he uses his AS as an excuse.
I just tell him that AS may explain his behaviour, but it doesn't excuse or justify it.
In the same way, CDing may explain your partners' behaviour, it doesn't excuse or justify it either.
Hope this makes sense,
HC
