The guy thing is a special one for me. I don't have the least bit of attraction to men. However my femme side has no problem flirting with guys who see my femme image (either in person or online). I don't push the envelope, I make it clear that I am in no way sexually attracted to them and I make sure never to cross lines. Still, batting an eyelash, enjoying compliments and being nice can feel good.
I'm prety open minded and I don't see anything wrong with a girl like us being with a man. Though I don't share that desire, I get it. I probably would do it if I could get over the fact that I just don't find men appealing. I can't see myself being with anyone who doesn't turn me on.
For me the idea of a man is appealing. The idea of being treated like a woman by a man is appealing. I have seen it in simple things like men holding doors open for me, dancing, or just approaching me. I like those things, they feel good. Anything too much beyond that is crossing the line for me.
