Wow, you and I might know this same person as the circumstances sound identical. This happened around 2001 up in Dallas area.Originally Posted by KandisTX
Carol,
I knew a T-gurl in the past that was exactly like this. Had been married to a wonderful woman for a number of years and within six months went from "I'm a crossdresser". to "I'm a Trans-Sexual and want a sex change NOW"....This was a totally and completely selfish choice that he made and did not even once consider his wifes feelings or thoughts, he just decided one day that he was going to become a woman.
Kandis
Even though I was not happy (personally) over the choices he made, I'm still his friend. Doing what he did came with a HUGE price as he has children as well.
There are times where he eludes to thinking it would have been better had he kept everything in the closet because even though his SO (on the outside) was saying that she was accepting of his (then) behavior, she was telling my SO a completely different story. When he decided it was time to be all he/she could be, his marriage was essentially over.
It was an awful time watching that train wreck happening, but we still gave them both as much support as was possible.
*Much hugs*
Zara
