Marriage in my opinion is not sacred but an outdated concept or ideal. Society has changed and the 1950's era where marriage could work is dead and gone. The era where the man was the bread winner and the woman stayed home raised the kids. Times have changed it takes both the man and the woman to work and pay the mortgage now the kids go to daycare. The woman no longer has to take the submissive role since she is earning just as much if not more than the man. Women today will not tolerate being dictated to by the man the way the used to in the 50's. There is too much temptation on either side if the fence. Society now is set up for marriages to fail. Somebody here referred to marriage as a "contract" look at that word it has "con" at the begining of it, that should be an indication right there.
There is nothing sacred IMO about marriage I dont believe in a father figure that lives in the sky that will smight me for lack of faith or if I do evil, so there is nothing to make a vow to.
As for relationships I have learned the hard way that it is better to tell her as soon as possible for an open honest relationship. Besides I shave everywhere now so the moment I take off my clothes questions arise.
