Tessa, it's obvious from your post you've never been married. Kelly and Yvonne posted some valuable info based on life experiences.
Marriage is SO far from sacred! It's hard work, often painful, and the divorce rate doesn't come close to indicating how many couples stay in unhappy marriages for convenience, or "the children"!
Even the preacher who married us described the "tunnel of hell", he and his wife went thru after the "honeymoon" first few years of their marriage!
We just had an election in Cal. to decide if gays could marry. The election SHOULD have been about puting restrictions on ANYONE that WANTS TO MARRY!
U have to get license to drive, yet any two idiots can get married! There should be education classes required, and tests to be taken and passed, before people are allowed to marry. For most folks, it is the one event that will MOST effect their entire life!
And finally, Tessa, CDing is usually just the tip of the iceberg in marriages! If a couple has a great marriage, than CDing probably won't be a big deal. Maybe even make it more fun for them both! If they have a troubled marriage then, bringing home the wrong brand of coffee can cause a big problem. Never mind CDING!
Of course I've, been there, done that! My marriage break up had NOTHING to do with my CDing. We had REAL PROBLEMS!
