Not all CDers end up with non-accepting women. There are also many women like me who don't love the CDing and wouldn't look for it in a mate, but who can accept it as part of a whole package that is appealing. I put up with my husband's CDing like I put up with his bad puns. And he doesn't expect me to adore either habit.
I think CDers should look for women who accept that real life is different from the "happily ever after" promised by Disney movies; who have unconventional needs of their own; and who appreciate that gender roles aren't set in stone.





