Sorry to hear about all this---would you like Me to come to Texas and give the offending parties a public whipping?? Sounds exactly what those two "ladies" deserve. However in the overall scheme of things, not being invited to a "couples" baby shower--called a Jack and Jill in Maine btw---is not the end of the world---the good thing is that Austin is a big area with lots of people, many of whom are intelligent, charming, attractive and tolerant---those are the ones that you and your SO should hang with. Not the intolerant harpies with their heads up their you know whats.