Suzy,
No one can tell if you 'pass' or not from a still photo. It obviously bothers you, so try filming yourself moving in front of a videocam?
But honestly, very, very few people pass 100% all the time.. And most of them are on hormones and have their own hair..Please, don't obsess about passing? The difference may just be you didn't notice people 'reading' you before? Women particularly are very good at seeing, but not reacting. :hmmm:
Isn't the problem more 'do I get unpleasant comments'? So, be prepared to be read, and to throw a little 'shade' back? (Along the lines of "Well you're no gentleman, certainly..") Watch how genetic women deal with men behaving badly?
If anyone wants to be rude - make it their problem, not yours? You have every right to just be yourself, so act confidently, even if you don't feel it...
