Michaela, I suggest you go back and read the full thread and then try to understand where I am coming from. I regularly talk and listn to ladies who cannot accept CDing and struggle with all it has brought to the relationship. I have always tried when talking to these ladies to focus on the positive side of having a CD as a partner in the hope that they will do too. I also listen to a fair majority of you wondering why your SO or others cannot accept you and my heart goes out to you. After all how can wearing female attire possibly affect a relationship in such a destructive way.Originally Posted by Michaela
Then you read something like this thread which is basically saying that CDing replaces the sexual thrill you get from having a partner. Infact Doc actually admitted that although his partner was pretty and always interested in sex he lost interest sexually and gained more of a thrill from his dressing.
Nothing wrong in that you say, no there isn't if thats what floats your boat, what I am saying is that all those things I have tried to get over to my GG friends who have CD partners seem to have evaporated because judging by the response a great many of you agree with Doc, which blows my argument of CDs feminine side often being more kind sensitive, understanding and loving toward their partners out of the water. So yes I am a tad disappointed because I always thought that the argument my lady friends were putting to me about the sex thing were imaginary and had been blown up out of all proportion simply because they didn't want their SO to dress. I hope that makes it a bit more clearer for you
Take care
Bev
