Samantha, think long and hard about coming out to everyone. None of it worked out well for me. I was fooled; I had been talking to gender friendly therapists, went to gender friendly meetings, to the point that I really believed that it wasn't a big deal. Well, to most of society, it is. To most of society, we're freaks, gay, perverts. To those who are religious, we are doomed to go to hell, every single one of us, and they will endlessly try to get us to repent our evil ways, every....single....time they see us. If your relationships are intact, remember: When you share a secret, you are placing the burden of that secret on another person to keep, and if they aren't comfortable with that secret, it's as much as placing a curse on them. Don't do it. As much as you want people to accept you, for the most part, it doesn't work out as you want it too. Sure, it's possible. But it's not likely. Choose who you tell very, very carefully.