I have to ask you, unhappywife, why the heck are you here? You ask for help, yet you dismiss out-of-hand all the helpful and caring advice you have received. You are absolutely unwavering.
And may I suggest something? When you next, if ever, begin a thread here or anywhere else, tell us the complete story from the beginning. Don't keep throwing out additional, and very relevant, tidbits that totally change the story. Don't you think it would have been useful for the members to know that your husband wanted to live fulltime as a female from the beginning?
If you truly want help, take the time to consider what is written to you. You are discussing a life-altering situation here, not one that should be reacted to before you and your husband have had time to really consider all the ramifications.
Good luck to you and I truly hope you spend the time loving your baby and getting your emotions back to where they normally are. Divorce, if that is your ultimate decision, will still be an option a month or a year from now.
