ok some of you got mad because of the way i presented the information I just gave it to you as I got it. But i did take every ones advice and went to marriage counseling and guess what most of you said this just might be a whim and you were right. the therapist pointed out to my husband that he has an issues dealing with big events...mostly due to how he grew up. He admits the idea appealed to him but that he didnt really want it. and oddly enough this was all brought on by the birth of my daughter.
