Just to put my 2 cents in, I think the arguement that you deceived her is rediculous. You didn't tell her initially because you were afraid. Trust takes time to build. It's NOT given freely just because you marry someone. Even after marriage, trust takes time. Don't let anyone tell you that you decieved her because you didn't tell her initially. She even said that if she had known from the beginning she would not have married you. This isnt like you were sleeping with everyone woman in the state or selling drugs on the side. I think you have to ask yourself why you married her in the first place. Was it because your were love with or just in love with the idea of beling in love with her. Obviously we dont know her as a person, and she might be good, but this is no way treat someone you allegedly love...thru better OR for worse. Remember that line?????
