Quote Originally Posted by Miranda09 View Post
Just to put my 2 cents in, I think the arguement that you deceived her is rediculous. You didn't tell her initially because you were afraid. Trust takes time to build. It's NOT given freely just because you marry someone. Even after marriage, trust takes time.
I may be way off base here, but if you don't TRUST someone why the hell are you marrying them !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!