Yes but I'm suggesting that every CD and their GG SO's too really are obliged to do this.
For the sake of their children grandchildren and other peoples children.
Now that may need to be done gradually and carefully to be most effective, but I cannot find any other conclusion. That a CD and GG owe their family, their children and future descendants and all of society to be involved in making CDing accepted.
That morally and ethically every CD and GG is obligated to push for an Inclusive ENDA ad to make their own community more TG-friendly or they are being negligent and failing their family.
That not doing so is being selfish. Putting ones own comfort ahead of the needs of chidren and grandchildren and the rest of the community.
Certainly everyone can't just come out now without risking their job... hence why inclusive ENDA is a matter of protecting the family! So that accidental or intentional outting doesn't harm the family.
I see no other rational or emotional conclusion.