Either way it's a gamble involving tremendous risk unless the CD is prepared to be totally outed from the start!
Is being totally outed from the start not a tremendous risk as well

It seems to me that can be more of a risk due to the fact some groups take a dislike to people just because the dont fit with there idea of normal

That has nothing to do with transphobia because they dont just pick on a particular group . They just chose those who are different