Crossdressing noob... help?

[Ze]

You can try that... but unfortunately a lot of transmen have been given female haircuts when they try that. Something you'll learn eventually, is that being gay doesn't make someone understand or accept transpeople, and a lot of lesbians see transmen as women, even once they have beards.

You're dead on about that; I guess I didn't express that well enough in my post. :D (That was my point of actually "checking up" on a supposedly LGBT-friendly place before going in.)

I guess I'm also talking from lucky experience. The blatantly gay hairstyler I went to seemed to really get what I was going for, but I don't doubt that he's a diamond in the rough.

For the clothes, I didn't mean there were no male/female differences to those styles, but rather it's more "acceptable" for genders to switch it up. A lot of the boys wear women's style skinny leg jeans (like myself), while some of the girls wear really baggy men's pants, etc. I feel it's the best way for somebody new to ease into the public sphere, especially if they're already into the style(s).

1) I...really can't help you too much with the hair problem. I'm Haitian (Haiti's south of Cuba), which means I have no idea how white guys' hair works or what would work for you. I'm sorry.

Now see, I didn't know that about you, lil' bro! Maybe if you'd post a picture every once in a while...:D