Quote Originally Posted by emoglassesenvy View Post
i dunno. it's just like if instead of telling me he is trans, he said he got in some freak ninja throwing star fight and happened to accidently get his junk cut off. like, i can't be mad at him for not having a penis. it's not his fault. he's still the same person with or without.
you know, I like that reason....mind if I use it?


following everyone's awesome advice, i straight up asked him if it was alright to ask questions. he was totally totally cool about it and said it was fine and he'd answer anything i asked him. like you guys thought, he said he was used to questions and was glad i wanted to know more about him. so i'm really happy that all worked out.

oh, also, we are officially dating now ♪ヽ(*^-^)人(^o^*)ノ♪
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Quote Originally Posted by emoglassesenvy View Post
and hah, actually that high school friend of his that i thought was male is actually a transman too~

i really had no idea there were so many transboys and transgirls around. i'm not going to be "on the lookout" or anything, but i might think a little differently when i see some people.

my guy said that he can usually tell when he meets others and that others can usually tell when they meet him. i just don't get it at all. can you guys tell?
See, we're just people. We're everywhere, but no one would ever know it, because we're not the freaks of nature society paints us to me.

Can I tell? It depends on how for along the person is in their transition, and when in life the person transitioned. But usually, I just see a short dude or a tall chick. and nothing more.