heterogirls & transboys

[emoglassesenvy]

you know, I like that reason....mind if I use it?

haha go for it

Hey Emo welcome to the forum. It’s great to read how understanding you are about his situation and I am pleased he has found someone as caring as you. Usually, us “female to male” “transguys” tend to only be called male, not trans, not ftm [personally I hate being called anything but male but hey, everyone is different]. As someone else said, communication is the key, talk about what is best for you BOTH not just one of you etc.

Anyway, short and sweet, welcome. You should maybe get your boyfriend to join up and chat about his experiences?

Take care =]

ah, thanks for the tip about what to call transguys/males/etc heh.

when we talk, we speak in japanese but i don't know the words for transgender/transman/ftm/etc in japanese, so i just say them in english and he understands what i'm saying (probably from internet research) but so far he hasn't said which words he uses for himself yet-- instead of those words he just says "people like me". i'll try to keep listening for them though.

and i'd suggest signing up to him, but he is more comfortable using japanese and i think he's already posting on some japanese message boards <3