Quote Originally Posted by CherylFlint View Post
There is no known substitute for dressing. A wife will neither strengthen, nor lesson, the desire. Expressing yourself as a woman to yourself, and to the world, is a desire that can not be ignored. Surpressed, yes, ignored, no. Some of us on this blog have come to terms with our desire, some haven't. I suggest that you work it out rather than throwing up your hands.
Take it from me, dressing can be very rewarding, educational and very, very fun.
The way I explain it to myself is that my X's and Y's are arranged so I'm a crossdresser and that's all she wrote.
Have fun, and I know you will once you've come to terms with it all.
See, you've hit it on the head. It's like I got really excited by imagining what it must be like to skydive. I finally did it, and plan to again sometime. But I haven't been bitten by the bug so deeply that I'm now going to spend my life skydiving as often as I get the chance.
It's part of my hesitation about participating here. It's something that means just about everything to some of you. I want to express myself honestly, but with sensitivity to those for whom this is not just a fun thing. Yes, I may discover its importance down the road, but frankly I can't imagine it ever taking over my life.