And if I may add a word (certain to be unpopular): Enough with the man-bashing too! "Neanderthal"... "homophobic"... "shallow"... Lordy! When I am a man I think as a man, and as a man I have feelings too (indeed have been encouraged by the female tribe to have them) and if I feel nervous, upset, unhappy, distressed by the thought or experience of my male friends dressing up and behaving as women, then I say, that's my own damn right! I'm a sensitive dude. ;-)
For the record, I have dressed up for numerous (curious) male friends and not a one of them has become unfriendly later. One went out walking with me, another even danced with me. They were having fun. After all, guys just want to have fun!