Wow, this got feisty, lol. She thought he knew, whether or not she should have told him is moot, isn't it?

Quote Originally Posted by kellycan27 View Post
Are you in fact a transexual? Are you out there living it 24/7 ? Or do you have the luxury of running home and changing into your drabs when you get frightened, or appearing in your drabs so that you don't have to feel the scorn of your friends ,loved ones or neighbors? Do you wear your girly clothes when you are at the pulpit? I do live it 24/7 365, and I don't have the luxury of changing into my drabs, or calling off of work because I am insecure or frightened. The mere fact that I am out there living it everyday amongst the detractors and those who would discriminate should tell you that I do not accept it. What do you really know about it other than what you read? When is the last time you were discriminated against when you were just trying to do your job, or make your way from point a to point b?
I've experienced some of the things Kara has, too, but I don't think turning the thread into "trannier than thou" is too helpful

Kelly, you've said that some here are looking out for only themseves and lack fairness, but you've said on multiple threads that you don't feel obligated to give back to the community. I wouldn't dispute that, as you say, you do give back, but how do these viewpoints mesh? Not trying to make waves, just curious