If there are not kids involved and no property or huge bills to split, I say get out of the marriage while it will still be easiest. Someone said you are 21. I doubt you guys have anything you could really fight for in court so you can't lose much if anything. Even if it means having to cut some losses, get out now. If your wife is putting on weight, it probably won't stop at 15 extra pounds.
Plus, the bigger problem, if she is gonna act like this about you being TG, she isn't gonna start accepting, she will be wanting to put up boundries, and of course you will get insultedover it each time a fight starts.
And listen, for telling people you are TG, don't ever think people will not gossip. The only ones who would keep that a secret are other TGs and that is cause they are either in the closet or they are full time TS who have miraculously forgotten they are still genetically male and once lived as men.
Nether category of TG wants to be outed.
Well, anytime on this forum that a GG gets bashed in any ways shape or form, people are gonna freak out.
See as a general rule, it is OK for a TG to be given a hard time but we are not suppose to do it back. :brolleyes:
People think I have it in for GG's, not the case. I will say this - I would trust a GG faster than some TG. You would not believe how often some of the TG here will pounce on their own TG sisters.