Take it easy Tamera,
This gurl is in a world of hurt right now. His life could be turned upside down to the point he could have to move to another town/state. I really feel for his/her situation. Maybe a little more tact could have been used but I think that he was trying to be open, I think he was groping for answers while posting. If I read between the lines, he loves his wife.
Sheri
